I travel to this hotel a few times a year in 2 week sessions for work. This hotel and the Ritz Carlton are the best in the island. I think the Frenchman's Reef needs updating in the carpets and room as they have somewhat worn, but the hotel has the best view of the Island!
If you go to St. Thomas, USVI do not stay anywhere else. I would say the hotel is good for kids as the pool is very nice and the restaurants are also good. The beach is very pretty. This hotel is mostly for adults and there are not alot of activities for kids, but if your kids like the beach and pool they will enjoy themselves here. I have been to this island alot in the last 4 years and I can recommend some very nice restaurants. The nicer restaurants are NOT kid frendly, like the beautiful Room with a View or Mafolie. Both a must try. A place to take the kids is on the tram ride up to a beautiful mountain overlooking downtown Charlotte Amalie. There is a restaurant up top and music, etc.