9 Replies Latest reply: Nov 26, 2012 2:42 PM by profchiara RSS

Do you see stories?

profchiara Alumni Steward Silver 3 Reviews
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Hi all,

I'm curious if I'm just weird (yes, I am) or if others do the same thing.  When I'm home this doesn't happen, but when I travel it does.  I love people watching and have always (with or without a companion) imagined their lives.  But sometimes ideas for beginnings of novels come to me just through very ordinary situations. (This is not intended to be well written )

 

Here are a couple of examples.

A few years ago, I was at the Cafe Marly at the Louvre in Palace, where no one goes to eat or for the service, but only for the view.  As I looked out toward the courtyard, a sparrow perched on my table, looking directly at me.  My attempts to stare him down failed, so I cocked my head side to side, trying to act like a bird.  He turned sideways and looked at me with his right eye only.  The waiter started shooing away the birds but sensed I didn't want my sparrow gone.  The sparrow and I had made a connection, and I thought what brought me to the Louvre that day so that I would meet him. What were the stares intended to tell me? I tried ignoring him and looked at rapt couples, arm in arm, walking toward the Tuileries but he remained.  I gave him the remains of my lunch.  He ate warily, keeping an eye on me.  What was he telling me?  I learned in that moment to savor every encounter, even with a bird. As mortal beings, we need to stop, not only to smell the roses but to listen to and look at the birds. He remained till I signed the check and said a hushed au revoir.

 

Here in Bologna, my main meal is lunch, and I have tried out various restaurants. But before going back to the hotel, I stop at a wonderful panini shop a few doors down for the end of day. (Would you believe? Freshly made? This wouldn't happen in Paris, especially at countertop shops near the train station.)  Even though he's more than 40 years younger than me, one young man who makes sandwiches has flirted since the first day (ah, the Italians!).  Each time I come in, he asks, Come normale? (The usual?) And each time he adds yet another piece of turkey or some fresh vegetables to my panino and after handing it to me says "a domani" (till tomorrow).  I wonder about him.  For me there won't be a tomorrow here because I'm heading home, but I wonder what his life will become.  WIll he always sell sandwiches? Will he become a permanent student? Will he snag some old lady like me with his shy naivete? Or will he somehow transcend the normal in Italian society and rise to a position of prominence? I hope he does whatever he wants to do.

 

And sometimes stories and worlds collide, as happened with my tour guide (for 3 times) in Roma several years ago, Giordano. After he ditched the tour group briefly at break at the Trevi Fountain he bought me a prosecco and said the Italian versions of three times a charm before we returned to the oohs and aahs of older women on the bus.  Over the next three years we spent much time together whenever I was in Rome. Giordano was a troubled soul, and I was 19 years older than him, so we kept it platonic but romantic.  But that's how I ended up in the Worker's Socialist Cultural Club that night many years ago listening to jazz before flying home.  We still remain friends and correspond.

 

As I've said many times, I am a hermit at home.  Maybe that makes me more open to at least 'seeing' stories and having minor experiences when I'm abroad.  (It definitely doesn't happen at US conferences.) And in almost every case I want to write a book that starts with such an experience. Maybe if I ever get to retire I will.

ProfChiara

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  • Re: Do you see stories?
    lakeshore Platinum 11 Reviews
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    Beautiful, Prof! Just beautiful! Thanks for sharing, and please do keep on imagining, experiencing, and writing. I look forward to purchasing your books someday! I completely relate to your post on many levels...just don't have the time to post right now. When we lived in Paris, I wrote a ton while the boys were in school, and we have always enjoyed creating stories as we people watch(that is what you do while waiting for the train or metro when your mommy was an actress long ago!). So I don't think you are weird at all! Although, I may not be the best judge, as I think I am probably weird, too! Lol! Now my imagination is really going, thinking about so many people we used to see on a daily basis...the monsier madame at the  boulangerie, the cheese guys at the Monoprix, our polite but distant neighbors...what are they doing now, 5 years later???

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      profchiara Alumni Steward Silver 3 Reviews
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      AH, les boulangeries de Paris!  This is where the army high command is at its greatest.  I joke of course, but I only ever feel intimidated these days at bakeries.  There is a sort of ranked officialdom in France from the uppermost levels to what some of us may seem more lowly, but it has always been the official bureaucracy, whether at the national libraries or the nearby bakery that have given me the most hassle.  At the BnF it is even worse when you have to deal with Mme. le President.

       

      But Monoprix is a different story -- I love it and I hope unlike Supermarche Champion it never becomes a Carrefour.  I simply love the cheese aisles (not to mention the wine). And upstairs you can often pick up a lovely outfit for a very reduced price.

       

      There are so many stories that could have been, might have been, will be or will never be.  But it's fun to imagine them all.

      ProfC

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        pluto77 Alumni Steward Platinum 25 Reviews
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        I ditto what Lakeshore so eloquently wrote.  Keep on writing and sharing.  Marvelous.  I do see stories (the surfer 'dude' at the casino in Las Vegas that we dubbed, 'Rip Curl' one time... what was his story?  The porter at the Marriott Champs-Elysees who was working his way through law school... this French guy, who kept showing up to dine at the same restaurants that we dine at, in completely different arrondisements!  what was up with that?  totally wierd), but anymore to be honest, I am too busy making my own stories to ponder the (fascinating) stories of others.  Perhaps in time, when I'm no longer racing through time to see every tourist attraction (just being honest here, and being honest, I wish I traveled like you and Lakeshore to see non-touristy things).

         

        I love the Monoprix (plural?  je ne sais pas comment le dire) as well.  But the Carrefour is actually great for small electronic gadgets (attachments, adapters, etc.).  La Bou est Roi.  I am a champion of the free hotel breakfast, but it is hard to beat a fresh baked demi baguette from the local bou and a triangle of cheese  from the fromagerie two doors down.

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          jerrycoin Alumni Steward Platinum 60 Reviews
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          Pluto, was this the porter?  He was a great guy!

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            pluto77 Alumni Steward Platinum 25 Reviews
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            The bird is neat!  "Our" porter was similar in youth and appearance, but probably not the same.  He was from 2005.  Probably (hopefully) practicing law each day now, then heading home to the beautiful love of his life and their infant son!  Wonder what the story is for your young chap (homme)?

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    jerrycoin Alumni Steward Platinum 60 Reviews
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    Professor,

     

    Two "Bird stories", I would like to share with you.  Likewise, sure enjoyed your post!

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    At Louis Back Yard in Key West, this bird is actually drinking from a glass served by the bartender!

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    This "Friendly Bird" was on our table in Rue St. Germain in Paris!  Les Maggots is a famous sidewalk cafe, and this bird was smart!

     

    Thanks again for your post!

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    profchiara Alumni Steward Silver 3 Reviews
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    Great stories, all!  I love the bird pics (my cat would too).  I'm winging my way home now (or shortly) -- through AMS-JFK-BOS-bus and car.  No boats at least.

    ProfC

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    eb5147 Alumni Steward Platinum 7 Reviews
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    ProfC,

     

    That reminds me of a movie with Nia Vadalos called "My Life In Ruins" where she is a tourist guide in Greece.  If you haven't seen it, I think you'd like it.

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      profchiara Alumni Steward Silver 3 Reviews
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      As I wait nearly dead in JFK for my connection to BOS, that sounds good.  I feel right now like I could use someone to carry me all the way home to Maine!  I should definitely see that movie!

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